Real Men

Real men never tell anybody that they are real men. It is obvious from the assertiveness in their eyes, the set of their shoulders, the pitch of their voices, the pithiness of their words, the impeccability of their actions.

Real men never talk about being a real man, the challenges and hardwork involved. They don't talk about it to their partners / lovers, parents or even their closest male friends. They don't talk about it to show-off, to be admired or to gain love.

The only exception to this rule is when they are teaching younger people - men and women - about real men. Even then, it is better to show than to talk.

Knowing Men and Women

The difference between men and women is that:

Everybody, including women, know what men want / think.
Everybody, including women, do not know what women want / think.

Limits on Ladies Rights

I always encourage and give big props for a quick, direct, final 'NO' from the ladies.

When a lady is not going to give some to a guy, she should give him a quick, direct, final 'NO', and send him on his way. That way, the guy can try his luck with another lady, or he may go home, jerk-off and get some sleep.

What the lady should NOT do is kill his hard-on by doing one of the following:

1. She should not continuously diss him or Keep discouraging him by telling him that he is not good enough, or that she does not feel any chemistry with him, or that they might not make good lovers together, or similar other crap.

2. Even worse than no. 1 above is to be a cocktease: flirt with him, lead him on, encourage him by hinting at later possibilities, keep him around all evening for her sole entertainment, and then dump him cold when it is time to make good on the hints.


To summarize, a lady has every right to refuse. She has no right to discourage, demoralize or toy-with-and-discard a guy's hard-on.